Technology’s Impact on Families

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FACEBOOK? Is it Taking the Place of Real Faces?

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Facebook has really affected families, I believe- both in a good way and a bad way. I know I’m more up to date on my far flung relatives than I ever have been. It’s nice to be able to jot them a quick note and see what’s up with them and their kids.

The downside, I think, is I sometimes see people who are either in the same house or across the street from each other posting to each other’s wall. That seems inane and isolating- Are we not talking to each other in real life in the same house or town?

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A Mini Vent

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Just a small vent.  A week ago, I was attacked  by a person for no reason in a series of vituperative emails. I’m not a grudge holder but I have vowed to steer clear of this person. Now it seems like I’m going to have to take a stronger stand than I intended. What I’m planning to do may cause some hurt feelings but I have to look out for myself.  I refuse to be a victim of this person. I may be making an announcement here soon about what I’m thinking about doing- unless I change my mind.

I’m in a state of flux in my writing life. Not sure about this mystery I’m writing either. I think I need to get some perspective on a lot of areas of my life.  Not sure how to go about it since I seem to be too busy for my own good. Wish that new horoscope thing would make me be less of a Capricorn. Alas, it is who I am and I can’t seem to turn off the type A thing and the urge to overachieve. Makes me cranky.

“THE COUNT’S LAIR”

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Just finished reading an advance reader copy of this book and I’ll be posting a review of it both on this blog and my alter-ego’s blog.  I thought I’d share the beautiful book trailer with you all before I get the review done- whet your appetite so to speak.  This book comes out in February from Desert Breeze Publishing http://stores.desertbreezepublishing.com/StoreFront.bok.  The book is by Stephanie Burkhart.  Enjoy the trailer!

On Being in the Spotlight

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Prima Ballerina

I’ve been on stage in many capacities. I was a dancer for years. Ballet was my love but I was much better at jazz and tap since I’m not the most graceful person on the planet. I had delusions that I was as suave as any prima ballerina but I really was more of a “jazz hands” kind of girl than a lovely “en pointe” beauty (kind of like this photo here- doesn’t she look like she’d be better off in jazz? Note the bent legs and bad back  posture).

I’ve also been on stage playing in an orchestra- violin.

Been on stage as Dorothy in a toga in a production of “The Wizard of Oz” in a competition- for a district wide Latin classes event- in high school- think, “There’s no place like Rome” and “Leones, et tigres, et Orsi, oh my.”

And lastly, as a lawyer speaking at seminars. So, I run the gamut here.

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Dude! I Love Slang

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It’s awesome that I hate woot and squee!

I use awesome a lot. WAAAAYY too much, really. I need to stop all the awesomeness.

Ones I hate and never use: squee and woot- hate them- a lot!! They drive me over the edge every time I hear or read them.

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A Fictional Character I’d Like to Hang Out With

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Hammock

Hanging in a Hammock with a Jane Austen character

If I could bring one fictional character to life for a day it would have to be Colonel Brandon from Sense and Sensibility. He was such a gentle soul and deserved the happiness he finally found at the end of the book.

We’d spend the day under the trees with him reading the sonnets of Shakespeare as we hung out in a hammock.

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Today Was a Wild Ride

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First, I had an issue on  one of my cases that I thought was resolved on Friday. Nope. It reared its ugly head again today. I got several business emails from this particular person that one of my friends described as having never heard of customer service. I agree.  She was rude in the body of the emails, tried to say it was my office’s fault when it was clearly an error on their end (if I’m wrong, I own it and we did what we were supposed to do on Friday)- and then she signed her emails like some valley girl (and yeah, she’s in California)- it was “have a wonderful rest of your day!!”  AND those are her exclamation points. 

On the third email, when she basically snubbed her nose at me and said, like a kid on the playground, “Nah, nah, nah,” AND had that “have a wonderful day” ending to it,  I went into orbit and called in the big guns.  This chick had no idea I had the trump card. Didn’t want to play it, but I did.   I know a person pretty high up in the company. I told him I didn’t want to be a lot obnoxious but I wanted to be a little obnoxious if I needed to – to get results.  I got them.  Results.  I don’t like to play that way, but I can if I have to.

Once that crisis was averted, I got attacked in a series of emails in my personal email from A DIFFERENT woman who I now believe to have some very serious issues.  Kind of scary how venomous these emails were. WHOA.  

Let’s hope for a better day tomorrow. No having to go over someone’s head for results in business and no ugliness in my email inbox.  Either the personal one or the work one.

 Ciao!

New Anthology Released Today

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My short story, The House on the Bay, came out today in an anthology published by Whortleberry Press called Dear Valentine. This is a collection of Valentine’s Day Stories with a sci-fi, fantasy or horror twist.  You can order it here: http://www.lulu.com/product/paperback/dear-valentine/14445736

My story is a ghost story with a high school girl as the protagonist.  There are 20 stories in the book and they are all by great writers. I hope you’ll check it out.  Here’s the awesome cover and back:  I like the way the names on the back are in the shape of a heart.

If I Had One Hour in a Time Machine…

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Something I’d never do in real life- Break the Law

Great Lakes – Eliot Ness

I would love to travel back to 1920 in the era of the speakeasy. I’d like the adventure of hanging out in such an environment. I’d like to meet Eliot Ness and flirt with him just cause he must have been an awesome lawman! Maybe even coax him to have an illegal swig of some whiskey!

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The Black Swan- A Review

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I went to see The Black Swan based on the fact that Vincent Cassel was in it. I love him. He’s an awesome actor and sexy to boot.  He didn’t disappoint.  He was amazing and there was one scene in particular that was spectacular.

Natalie Portman is excellent in this  movie as well.  She nails her part.  It was quite intriguing and I enjoyed watching her. The dancing was well done even though  it was clear that Natalie didn’t do the more intricate steps. The director did a great job of showing her with the hand movements which she nailed.  The feet movements were shown separate. It was seamless.  I find it interesting that she seemed to have a dancer’s body in this film as well.  She must have trained for a while for the role.

Winona Ryder did a great job as well in the role of an aging ballerina. She was  too briefly shown, though.

This film was a bit of a tragedy but I enjoyed it. And Vincent? He was wicked cool!! Tres sexy.