I have a family member that never calls me unless she has a legal question. Even if it’s not something I handle or it’s a different state, she calls. She won’t give up calling until I pick up the phone- even if I can’t answer the question and even if my spouse tells her I’m not home, she’ll call back and leave messages like “I know you don’t want to get involved, but…”
She NEVER calls just to chat or to see how we are. I feel very used. I don’t like it at all.