Mine is sucking the life from me.   I can’t do anything right.  She has never been supportive of me and has never even told me that she loves me.  She actually had the nerve to tell me last night that I didn’t show my younger son any love.   What nerve.  I’m stunned and don’t know to deal with her anymore.  She likes to kick me when I’m down.  I hope I’m not a mother like her.   Any suggestions on how to handle her? How to distance myself from her so she can’t hurt me anymore?